Great you’ve taken the first step, and you have joined a couple of online dating services and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? what are the questions to ask before dating ?
How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is.
It would be nice if women wore simple labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.
Questions to ask before dating ?
Once you get past the initial small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen carefully to her answers. She’s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.
Always follow up
Next you should ask her, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating online and help you to avoid making the same things wrong.
Then Slam Dunk
Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same.
If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.
Knowing the right questions to ask before dating, will give you an insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time. But remember that she might have questions for you to.
So be prepared to answer hers truthfully as well. The whole idea about dating is to find the one that best fits for you.